As so often happens, when I start to write on a topic, it goes over the 300 word “limit” on blogs (reader attention limit), so I’m splitting this one up into two parts. Here’s Part 1.
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One of the most frustrating aspects of Being a Women is simply not being valued – not being taken seriously – almost no matter what one does. (Possible exception: behaving like a sex-object.) Whatever public activity women try to perform – academics, politics, business, writing, athletics – someone out there–most often, many–will belittle the efforts and disparage the achievements.
The undervaluing of a female’s contribution to the human enterprise is reflected in her monetary compensation. Unfortunately, in our society, value is commonly measured by income and/or price. This is true whether evaluating a person or a thing, and is no doubt a consequence of the mercantile culture that dominates much of the “civilized” world.
Despite laws to the contrary, on the books since the 1960s, women are simply not paid as much, on average, as men doing the same or comparable jobs. AAUW recently put out a 64 page report on the gender gap, which you can read here. If you don’t want to spend a lot of time perusing that lengthy document, you can read a report that provides a more succinct overview of the issues.
These pay gaps (really value gaps) persist, although they have diminished in the past quarter century (since the ERA went down in ignominious defeat). Even in science, where I spent my career (and retired at a salary in the 10th percentile, despite more publications and teaching responsibilities than most of my colleagues), women are almost unconsciously undervalued by both men AND women. Indeed, when publishing scientific articles, I learned that manuscripts submitted with just initials (J. A. V. Simson), rather than with my full name, were given more credence by reviewers. I had hoped this was no longer the case, but it seems not to have changed much, as can be seen in this report.
And speaking of the ERA, check out this YouTube video! http://www.wearewoman.us/2012/11/do-you-have-rights.html
Moreover, women political leaders and female cultural contributors tend to be mocked or ignored, and they so often fade from history. Where are the women in the history books and the art museums? Oh sure, we can’t forget Elizabeth I or Queen Victoria or Catherine the Great, can we? (Or can we? What do you know about their reigns?) And what about Joan of Arc, who was betrayed and conveniently burned at the stake after she had accomplished what the cowardly Charles VII could not/would not do. How much contempt has been hurled at female leaders such as Margaret Thatcher or Nancy Pelosi or Hillary Clinton? Their hats? Their hair-do’s? Please. Was any world leader uglier than Winston Churchill? Don’t get me wrong, I’m a great admirer of Churchill, AND of the aforementioned women.
Women in the arts generally receive little honor or monetary reward. Where is the wall-space given to women artists? Occasionally works by a female artist like Berthe Morisot or Mary Cassatt will be displayed alongside other, more famous male Impressionists. Granted, in the literary arts, women have achieved some true renown – writers like Jane Austin, Louisa Mae Alcott, Harriet Beecher Stowe, and Virginia Woolf have reached iconic status. Still, these authors are read primarily by women, who seem to appreciate books by both men and women. It seems that men, however, prefer books by men. This was illustrated by a recent blog in the online site, SheWrites.
(to be continued)


I discovered in the eighties that a male colleague whose responsibilities and job role were “below” mine was making more than I was. I confronted the bosses (male) and was told he has a family to support, and I am married so my husband is supporting me. Say what?? I now work at a not-for-profit that has an eleven member senior management team, seven of which are women. Nice paradigm shift for me.
Recently my daughter’s boyfriend told me he didn’t want to read my work. Why? I figured if he didn’t like it he’d rather not critique his potential future mother in law. Nope. He doesn’t like women authors. Wow. Even the twenty somethings hold onto gender prejudices. Terribly sad.
WOW is right! And it is terribly sad. His mom didn’t raise him right. (Watch out for your daughter.) These men need some education in how the other half thinks! A few of them ARE listening, though, and not just the young ones.
My daughter also quit her job when she found out that she was also being paid less than a man with less experience. She was pregnant at the time and took maternity leave and simply didn’t go back. She is now a stay-at-home mom, a luxury that fewer and fewer women can afford today.
A part of me wishes I had been able to stay at home with my children when they were babies, and then go back to work when they started school. But that wasn’t possible in my field (biomedical science). Don’t know if that has changed, yet although I doubt it. I also worked very hard to try to get on-site child care, but the old guys in charge wouldn’t hear of it.
I loved the film “Nine to Five” Only when women are the bosses will things change. I’m afraid guys are scared to death of that.
Joanne…good stuff – which I just shared on Twitter!
Thanks, Jane!
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